He is handsome and cute. He is the kind of guy every woman would love
to have. For his numerous roles in romantic films, his fans call him
‘lover-boy’. But most of them may never know that behind his handsome
face lies ‘the bad and the ugly’.
In this exclusive chat with The Entertainer, Ramsey Tokunbo Nouah
recalls the unforgettable, tormenting experiences of his life when he
was humbled by poverty. Here, he remembers the dark days when he slept
under the bridge in Lagos without food. His story is quite touching.
Excerpts:
You are no longer constant in movies. What is happening to you?
I am still on the screen; I pray for better industry than what we have.
We don’t have a proper structure and it is affecting us. It is affecting
so many of us because we don’t have a secured future. For instance,
some veteran actors passed on and people had to gather just to try and
give them a befitting burial. That shouldn’t be the case. We have an
industry that just paid you one off. It is not in any way protective of
the interest of the practitioners, it is not really helping us. I
believe strongly that we need to do a more integrated production,
quality production that will last, like when we started at the
beginning. All the stories are not encouraging and technicality we are
not growing, all these help to slow down the growth of the industry. And
without growth there are can never be a future, without dynamics you
can’t see the frontier. Basically, that’s what we are suffering right
now and there must be changes. The concern of most people shooting now
is about making their money back. They don’t have passion or love for
the industry like we do. So, that’s the reason why I am not acting. I
love doing a good job, something that will benefit the industry, a movie
that whenever you pick it up, if it is five or 20 years you can still
watch and be happy. I want a situation whereby I will do a job and my
great grandchildren will know me by my work. ‘Oh my great grandfather
did this, yes he is the one’. That is what I want to do to leave a mark,
a legacy, no just a passing face.
A lot of your colleagues have gone into producing their own movies. Is that the reason you don’t want to join the trend?
I am working towards producing mine at the moment, but the reason why it
is taking me this long is because I wanted to get it right. I don’t
just want to come out with something little or something that wouldn’t
be of standard. I am one of the pioneers saying that we should have a
better industry. Definitely, I should come out with something really
nice. And that’s why it is taking me so long but I will be coming out
with something this year.
You are a recipient of many awards here in Nigeria and Africa. What can you attribute that to and how does it make you feel?
It makes feel like an achiever. I really feel good about it. It is like
you are appraising me for my work and my input, and that is not a legacy
for me. I love the fact that people love my work and they appreciate it
and rewarding me for my work. It is the same thing for any person
whatever profession it may be; doctor, pilot, journalist and even market
woman, as long as you are passionate about your industry and people can
see it and they believe that you have given so much and deserve an
award. So, if a person deserves it then they should give it to such
person. I love being appreciated, but I will love it more when I do
leave a legacy behind.
How do you define success?
(Smiling) A whole lot of people define success as being rich and having
it all. I define success as peace of mind. To me, I am successful; I do
not owe anybody and I have a clean heart and clean spirit. I am a happy
man from the inside; that makes me very successful.
What is your greatest achievement as an actor?
It is yet to come, my brother. I cannot yet boast of greatest
achievement in the industry. It is not by my work, input as an actor,
no! Like I said, it will be by my legacy.
Most actors refer to you as their role model. Who is a good actor?
I don’t know how to put this without going by definition. If I can go by
what I know, I think like I said you have to be passion driven; that is
you are not acting because of the money, you are not acting because of
fame. You are just acting because you love the work. I think that will
totally see you through. Also, I don’t know how I can actually say it;
people will actually want to debate it. Whether good acting is God
given, natural talent or is acquired. I do not know how to define that
now but because I know definitely that it can swing both ways. You could
have a natural talent or God given talent as an actor and you could
still acquire it and still be extremely good. To me, they swing in both
directions. I can’t say you must be a natural or born actor to be a
fantastic or brilliant actor. I know some other very good actors who
weren’t born with it, but they are also extremely good because they love
what they are doing. Like I said, it is the passion, whether it is
natural or acquired once your passion drives you, you will achieve it.
Most actors try to act like you. Did you go for any formal training when you were coming up?
No, I didn’t. I didn’t go for any formal training to be an actor. It was
more like an inborn. There are so many things I know to deliver certain
lines, certain behaviour. I believe strongly that if you have a
character who is going through certain pains, emotions, joy, success or
whatever, there has to be a way to actually bring out that character to
the best of your ability, which of course will be to drill yourself in
that character at that moment and feel it deeply. For instance, if a
person is emotionally broken, how do I deliver an emotionally broken
character? I will personalize it; then I will ask different kinds of
people who have broken down emotionally which one do I take? Which one
do you think would be a market success if I apply it? That’s what I do.
Who were the people that influenced your career at the beginning?
It is really hard to say because the time we started, film wasn’t
palpable. It was more of foreign movies like Schwarzenegger, Rambo, and
all sorts of action movies. I didn’t really have access to television
because I didn’t have television at home. I didn’t have access to
movies. I mean you go to see movies like ‘Sound of Music’ at your
friend’s house. I couldn’t say I have role models from Indian movies; no
there wasn’t anything like. When I started, I remember my love for Al
Pacino and I used him as a yardstick in acting. If you want to show that
you are a good actor, you shouldn’t be stereotype. You should be
versatile; you should possess the ability to play different roles. I use
the Al Pacino`s role in Scarface, Godfather and Sense of a Woman to
show people how versatile he can be. In Scarface, he has a strict
gangster attitude. In Godfather, he has a mafia attitude. In Sense of a
Woman it was also different. So, three different characters and they are
all distinct. It was like he has the same gesture here and he has the
same mannerism there or he has the same line here or there. That’s the
way you can actually know someone who is a fantastic actor. He is one of
my role models.
How do you wear those characters and display different behaviours. What is your source of inspiration?
It is from the society. You look around you and see a lot of people.
People wearing different kinds of faces, you realize you are going to
interact with these people; everybody has a way of thinking, a way of
life. They are all not the same. You can actually be adaptive of all
these people. For instance, if you are meant to act like a madman, it
will be very professional to actually go around and find the one you
think would suit the character you are meant to play in a movie. And you
follow the person and study him for a little while so you can adopt the
character and you can perfect the character while you are delivering.
A lot of people think you’re a snub, arrogant and Casanova. Who exactly is Ramsey Noah?
I am a regular easy-going kind of guy. I am not a snub and I am not
arrogant. Most times a lot of people had criticized me, but as an actor
that is the cross I need to carry. And it is easy for you to say because
you are not wearing my shoe. Nigerians are very quick in judging
because they are good in throwing words before thinking about them. But
the truth of the matter is that we are normal human beings like you. I
am not Jesus and I am not here to save the world. I am just an actor.
Some people are making my life miserable. At some point when you think
that I am arrogant or proud, it might be due to circumstances. I might
be having a bad day. That I am an actor does not mean I have it all good
and smooth. For all you know, my daughter or my son might be sick in
the hospital and you probably came at the wrong time. This could make
people think that you are arrogant.
What is your most embarrassing moment?
I can’t actually pencil down any, but I have quite a few. I have had a
woman stone me with pure water sachet because she felt that I was mean
to some girls in a movie. A woman was sucking an orange and she threw it
at me because she didn’t like my behaviour in the movies.
Would you say that was the craziest thing a fan has done to you?
I wouldn’t say that, I don’t want to go explicit. (Laughing)
How do you handle your female fans?
It is just being nice and diplomatic. You can’t be nasty to them, you
can’t be mean to them; they are only doing what they are supposed to do
because they are showing love.
Do you have any project you are working on right now?
Yes, I just did a fantastic movie with AY. It is like a comedy, totally
different from the lover boy thing, but I still have a little of lover
boy stuff in it anyway. It is a whole lot of comedy and shot in the
United States. We are going to complete the rest in Nigeria. That’s the
work I have pending and there are a few to come.
Tell us about your growing up?
My growing up was like tasting the two sides of a coin. When I said
tasting the two sides of a coin; I mean tasting being a rich man and a
poor man. I grew up with my mother, and with a silver spoon, I had it
all. When I began to realize that I had good things to show off,
everything disappeared. We started from grace to grass; that has helped
me a lot because it totally balanced the equation of life. It gives me
confidence in all spheres. For instance, I can hang out with the
enlightened or the rich. I can mingle with them very easily without any
complication or complex whatsoever. Also, if it is the low class or poor
people, I can mingle very easily with them. I can eat a fantastic
dinner in a huge, expensive restaurant and I can go eat amala at a buka
and I would not feel anything. I don’t care being a popular actor or a
role model. I am a role model to everybody.
Are you saying that fame has not denied you anything in life?
It has denied me a few, but it has not denied me being as natural as I
want to be. I won’t let that happen. It has happened to some of my
colleagues. Fame has taken them away from what they wanted to do or be.
There was a time I went to a bank to pay my NEPA bill and I was wearing a
short and T-shirt, because it was on Monday morning somebody came down
and said ‘Ramsey Noah, you are a role model, you shouldn’t have been
wearing this’. I didn’t take it likely with him.
For you, what was the worst scenario when life was so cruel?
Those were the times when things got really bad for my mother and I and
we had nothing. It was so bad that we didn’t have a home or shelter to
live in. We had to stay in a store, a small store that could take only
one mat. My mother and I squeezed ourselves in that mat. We didn’t even
have a cup to drink water not to talk of a stove to cook. And my mother
had to borrow, beg and stuff like that. These were moments when I was
young I didn’t realize the gravity of poverty we were in, I couldn’t
tell. But it was a good orientation for me. It was moments that I thank
God for making me past through, because that has sustained and helped me
even as an actor. The ability to deliver all the roles they give me
because I have tasted both sides of the coin.
With all these experiences, what has life taught you?
Life has taught me never to look down on anybody because the person you
disregard might just be your saviour tomorrow. I realized that all my
mother’s property was washed away by rain. We couldn’t sleep all through
the night because of the flood. It was really terrible. Like I said, it
is a life lesson.
Is there anything that can make you cry or shed tears after all you passed through?
Yeah, those moments; those terrible moments when we had nothing and we
were living off people. People were just helping us out. There were
times we didn’t have food to eat three or four days. You haven’t eaten
and your stomach is rumbling but you don’t have any place to go. There
was a time I lived on the street, in shops. There was a time I slept
under the bridge. It was unfortunate that there were no records so that
we can have memories we could play back now. To me, I am so extremely
grateful that I went through it. At that time I hated everybody around
me. In fact, I used to question why God was doing this to me. But I
think God knew that I needed this for my future.
1 comment:
Wooow I've ran out of words Ramsey reading your story. So touching but I've learned that God is able nothing is impossible with him. Look at you today wooow may the good lord bless your family and keep u.
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